Life in USA &India

Is life here is really what u see?Are people really contend and happy as they appear?All the big houses, big money ,big cars and everything is what one want? I appear to be confused to see the life in usa.U get here what u can not imagine back at home in india.But at the same time you don't get what they have still now in India .The love and affection .Check me if I am wrong but this craving for everything more has caught with india too and specially in big cities.People have money for children but no time.This time factor is very important because everybody wants to be heard by others.It can be our children ,friends ,mother ,father or grand parents.Giving time to others means slowing down in the life but is it now possible?Can we slow down our pace in life?Isn't everyone is fighting for their identity? is there any solution?