Emotional life

Life what I have seen is full of emotional upheavel.You come across so many questions for which you don't get answers.Questions increase more and more and you end up hoping to get atleast few answers.Every body feels that they have got one single life so they must enjoy it to the core,But does life gives us a way to enjoy it ?It always happens that one ends up doing something which he or she never like to do.Meeting people of all ages what I have realised is all of us are living in some kind of self exile,because we feel what we have got is not good .We also feel that what others have got is better than ours and we were ought to have that.We forget that getting something or losing something is not in our hands.We all are puppets and the whole action on the centre stage is being done by some one up. We should feel satisfied with what we have and crave for other things which are not there.But it is easier said than done because one needs a lot of self disclipline to come over such thoughts.